Haven t wrote in a while, so bare with me...
Everyone likes what they like, or has a preference some are typecast (i like my person with a big butt, big dick, blond hair blue eyes, long hair etc etc) but when is "your type a reality" and when does it become a hindrance to your personal happiness? I mean everyone wants that eye candy! the one they can step out on the scene with and all eyes on you... the one with the wow factor, but in my experience one who looks good and draws all the attention, usually 9 times out of ten ain't the one for you... ie (they cheat/womanizers/whores) but most ppl know this and yet chase after the BOMBSHELL OR THE SHOWSTOPPER.. do they really think it's going to work or they go along for the ride? meanwhile the average to below male/female that is t-shirts and jeans no make up, keeps there hair unkempt but has all the good things going for them selfs (Job,education,housing) no baggage, like no kids, no baby mothers/fathers get little to no attention.
why is that? society now wants us to be all glamor and no substance... and for you who read this and "say no i dont do that", i'd call you A BOLD FACE FUCKING LIAR... we are all guilty of it.. i know i have done things in the past just to get approval from my friends.. u know stop talking to the not so cute girl, as soon as her friend or someone that looks better comes along.. it happens from all walks of life, celebs do it just recently former Giant Tiki Barber left his wife of 9 years who was also pregnant for the young intern, ruined his married life now he's coming back to play football because he has no money to pay for the divorce (he deserves that shit) Brad Pitt left Jennifer Aniston who is ok (not in to white girls personally) for Angelina Jolie (she looks dead to me) but Angelina is the hotter chic in the media.. it's rare someone is with someone for the long haul, but that is another story for another day... i mean don't ppl know karma is a bitch and what goes around comes around...
i mean so what if your mate is not what society wants... u always have to ask your these questions
A. does he or she make me happy?
B. does he or she offer stability?
C. chasing something that you built from the ground up worth losing?
i mean we're all born to die and won't be young forever (except me i'm immortal) so we won't be the hot young tender in the club or bar so we all can be easily replaced)
so my questions to you readers are
What is Your Type?
Do You Stick to your preferences like is it a must or do you freelance?
3. have you given up the gold for the fools gold? and if so how did you recover or how did it happen..
Thanks..
